2. Have you been waiting until you “meet your man” until you start LOVING YOURSELF the way you are? : stressLess-life
Have you been waiting until you “meet your man” until you start LOVING YOURSELF the way you are?
https://ift.tt/NIjBveAOne of the most common misconceptions I see when it comes to confidence-building for single women is to think that once you’ve met your person, then you’ll “FINALLY be happy with yourself” or that’s when your insecurities “WON’T MATTER” anymore because he’d love you the way you are.
This mindset couldn’t be any more DANGEROUS! ⚠️
Here’s WHY👇🏽
- Thinking that your insecurities will melt away once you get a boyfriend is saying that you’re looking to someone else for validation.
This security has to come from within yourself FIRST or else you’ll be entering a relationship expecting the other person to fill an internal void rather than being in a position to be able to give yourself and love FREELY. This will give you a higher chance of being in the relationship for the right reasons and dating according to your values as opposed to “needing” something from the other person.
Entering a relationship waiting for someone to complete you or validate you leaves you at risk of falling into and staying in a toxic relationship.
- Any insecurities relating to self-worth are usually magnified (rather than made redundant) after being in a relationship if they haven’t been worked through beforehand.
This ties in closely with no. 1 👆🏽because of the need for validation and security from the other person except this time, the pain is felt x 2 because now your boyfriend will FEEL THE VOID. Either the weight of the expectation to fill it or constantly seeing you unhappy with yourself.
The GOOD NEWS is that it’s possible to feel HAPPY, WHOLE, and SECURE within yourself NOW even before you’ve met your man!
Keen to hear from any single ladies in this group, what are the things holding you back from loving yourself now even before getting into a relationship? ✨
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