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Long distance breakup pain: did anyone reunite with their ex?

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Hi everyone,Maybe this is not the best place to post this but I feel that maybe you will give me the best advice

Since July, I’ve felt a void I can’t explain. She broke up with me only because of the distance. And yet, just a month later, she kissed someone else “just to kiss.” She said she was “looking for me in other people.” It wasn’t a relationship, just kisses. And it hurts. It hurts because she used to say that people who get involved just to kiss are superficial, and now she seems so different, so distant, so confused.

Sometimes it feels like she’s moved on, other times it feels like she hasn’t. When I try to share my feelings, the blame somehow falls on me. That never happened with her ex. She respected him and feared losing him, even though she barely heard his voice for years. And me? I gave everything, I fought, I loved, and it still wasn’t enough.

I see people fighting distance, time, and miles for love. People who truly love each other meet, get married, move countries, cross oceans. For example, I have a friend from my country who met her boyfriend in Germany. They were apart for a month and thought distance was too hard, but because they loved each other so much, now she’s moving to Germany to be with him. And me and my ex? We aren’t even from different countries, there’s no time zone issue, yet it feels impossible. I don’t even know whether to laugh or cry.

I want her back, but not the confused, distant version she is now. I want the person I fell in love with. I want her to fight for me like she fought for him. I want to feel again that it’s us. And it hurts. My chest feels heavy, my heart breaks into a thousand pieces every single day.

One day I sent her videos about long-distance relationships without thinking, and I realized she had reposted similar emotional videos for her ex, videos about how distance makes you want someone more, but I never got anything like that from her. She says she loves me, that she knows she’s never been loved this way, and that she’ll never find anyone like me. If she knows this, why didn’t she fight for me? Why give up on me? Why let the love we had disappear without trying?

I just want to relive that love. I just want to feel that there is still a chance. I need to believe there is hope, even when everything inside me screams that maybe there isn’t. Has anyone been through this? Has anyone reunited after distance, emptiness, and so much confusion?

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