2. You as an individual deserve to be happy and loved : stressLess-life

You as an individual deserve to be happy and loved

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This is my first post on here and I just want to say thank you to this community, the world out there is rough and sometimes it can impact us in a bad way. Self love is important and everyone deserves to be happy and loved !
It took me a while to accept that sometimes the problem is not you, it can be those around you (toxic environments) and after so many incidents and life events I came to a point where I learned self love, it's not easy but once you got it, nothing can take it away out of my pov.

I took little steps in my self love journey such as skincare, i bought some really healthy products that makes my skin feel good (i may not be the prettiest but skincare counts as some sort of love for me). I took care of myself for a while or like 'invest' in myself. In the past i always had this guilt where if i buy myself something nice it's pointless or it won't make me happy, etc but you don't always have to be happy, just satisfied.

The second thing is, I learned to understand people's words. Even insults. It's crazy how much you realize and the empathy you gain with self love because as soon as I hear people gossiping or saying mean critique, I seriously want to cover my ears and get away from them. Period.

One of the main things is, I've accepted the things i cannot change and rather the things i can improve on. That's the real game changer. And also, what happened in the past is what happened in the past. You cannot change it but you can work around it and focus on the future, focus on YOU ! You are the person that you are and you can do so many great things and even if life does not make sense or you feel like sleeping forever, don't feel bad, take it easy, days will pass and eventually you will find that missing piece that is called self love, the love you deserve, the love that you longing for, the love that will change your view of the world you see every day and realize heck ! I am worthy to be alive and happy after all

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