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I have finally found my answer!

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Ok soooooo i have sexual shame ( link for more info :https://www.reddit.com/r/emotionalneglect/s/m4hqGYqZQW)

i have decided to vent abt it on a subreddit and this person commented. I can’t give you guys a photo of this, so i am going to copy paste it.

Here:

My own, personal speculation is that you likely have some chemical imbalance in your brain that is triggering the intrusive thoughts. From the post, I think you might also have a subconscious fascination with sex as a concept, but something about how you view people makes even the thought of following through on that fascination repulsive. And while I might be accurate, without understanding what's causing these things, I can't offer anything as a path forward to resolving the problem, either to help you rid yourself of the intrusive thoughts or to integrate your sexual experience into your total worldview.

Before i have talked abt how my sexual shame feels so real ( ppl would tell me that its not. But i know that i have it. I can feel it. It feels real )

And there was finally a person that suggested that i might have an unconscious satisfaction with sex but the way that i see ppl or try thinking abt it ‘’ repulses ‘’ me. ( which tbh i am not repulsed by the idea of having satisfaction ( not to mention i dont even have that with sex ) i don’t think i have an unconscious satisfaction with sex, but the more i read this the more there would be a loud voice in my head saying ‘’ you ARE unconsciously satisftied by sex, you know you do. You just think you don’t bc you are denying your true desires ‘’

Sooo yeah, that is as far as i understood on their comment

Which MAKES SENSE. Like, there would be this voice in my head that would tell me things like ‘’ you did like those thoughts, you just don’t wanna admit it bc you are unconsciously repressing your REAL feelings ‘’

Or things like that. Sometimes even saying that i might unconsciously like the thoughts and that i am just repressing them and pretending to not notice this something like that.

Soooo yeah, i have found the answer, someone finally understood it. Soooo what do yall think?

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