2. How long did it take you to get over an cheater/ex? (Slight vent) : stressLess-life

How long did it take you to get over an cheater/ex? (Slight vent)

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Hi. I (16M) got cheated and broken up with 1.5+ months ago and while I dont think about her that much anymore, I still sort of feel as if I wasn't/aren't a good boyfriend. She (17F) mentioned some of her problems to me, get this, on the day of the breakup. I... I don't know what to write about that really... I guess a part of me, that is living in the past, want(ed) that she would've come to me as soon as she had those thoughts and problems. If you want to read the story then its here.

Anyhow, back to the point, I started going to therapy/psychologist now and really like that actually, it's nice to just talk with someone. But lately I've been (over(?))thinking about myself and how I am. I know i don't really have any outfits, I mostly take what I have in my drawer and go with it. I'm also bit scared to talk to new people, especially women, because I fear that I'll become a nuisance of sorts to them. I know its probably not true but I just want to help people and make them happy. I try to prioritize myself before others but a part of me doesn't want to (probably due to my past and me knowing how it feels to be alone and helpless)

Imma be honest, I think I just miss being loved/having a person that I can go to for any reason and vice versa. I miss having a person that I know cares about me deeply and that I care about them too. I know its dumb of me because I'm so young but a part of me is scared of being alone forever. I don't wanna be alone, I hate being alone. I hate that I can't just "get real" and love myself more, or like not want to be loved.
I'd love to have a dog or a pet, because then I could have a being that I know I care about deeply and vice versa. I don't know if it makes sense but, It would just be nice, sadly I cant cause parents probably wouldn't allow and I'm not sure if we got room for a pet even.

Hell, a part of me would forgive her if she wanted to come back but at the same time I think i would be scared again. I would talk more about that but i think it would be better if I don't and try to just bury that hatchet.

I know that I'll be a-okay in the end. I'm taking it positively, its just that... I miss love. Hell, a part of me still loves her that much that it doesn't care about the betrayal, because at the end of the day we're humans with our own problems.

To be honest, I don't know why I'm writing here. I guess I just would like to get some advice and maybe read some stories...

Thanks for reading, Lad(s).

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