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Advice I wish I could give my younger self

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Don't ever sacrifice life for love. It sounds funny but a lot of people sacrifice life for love that wasn't really even love just some twisted version of what we perceived as love. After a while you with find yourself comfortable in your own misery. One day you might come to realize you hated the person you claimed to love. Years of living a step behind them. Becoming and morphing into their shadow while yours faded away. So caught up in everything to do with him that you forgot what you wanted. Forgot who you were and wanted to be . Instead you became who he wanted you to be. You sacrificed yourself until nothing was left. Your partner is your equal they are not beneath you. Make sure to always treat them as your equal.

You can't tear a someone down until they becomes a shell of themselves. People's biggest mistakes in life are their heart and ego. People follow there heart and stay not realizing they are giving them the power to keep breaking it. In turn they raise there children broken. Others can't see past there ego to know there flaws so they can't work on fixing them. And they never will because their ego won't let them see the destruction they leave behind. You have to be different and want the best for eachother.if someone doesn't want what's best for you walk away. And sometimes what's best is to let it go and figure out how to rebuild yourself on your own. Even if you feel broken you can always pick up the pieces and reassemble them into something better. So yea if you never follow any advice I give you I truly hope that you will at least follow this one and never sacrifice life for love don't miss out on the best parts of life to hold onto something that is slowly killing you inside. You deserve better than that. You don't have to create a facade with smoke and mirrors to give the illusion that your happy if you really are not. Don't be fooled by what people expect your happiness to look like no you should create your own version of what YOUR happiness looks like even if othe people don't understand it what matters is that you can find happiness in life.

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