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hi i know this is a self love community, but this has been by far one of the most genuine ones out there where i can spill my thoughts and receive such helpful advices. and this one generally i have been struggling with lately. i noticed myself comparing my life to others, i truly thought i have been making progress with my self love journey. but lately, i have been growing lonely. i kept thinking all about my past relationships, never had a serious one. or where i have been pursued. it kind of shook me and my confidence, realizing no one has ever genuinely liked me for me. and kind of makes me think if i am beautiful or lovable at all. i don’t have much experience with dating, never been asked out really. i did go on a few dates with guys i met in dating apps, which all wanted just hookups, which have also added to my insecurity that men just wants me purely for that. i want to quit the apps, but being an introvert it really worries me that i might not be able to find love outside? there goes where everyone i like is with someone or is not interested to me. is something wrong with me? i mean i know i an young, i have lots of chances and time. i just hope i could experience it while i am still young :( i dont know if i have too high of a standard? its hard for me to like guys these days… and its scary out there with the amount of manipulators and cheating men. its tough to see other people so broken and troubled, but still can be loved by others. i do self work, i study hard, i workout, i take care of myself, i wouldn’t say i am perfect but i wonder what makes me so… undesirable? or just… not pretty? i dont know. my confidence has been so low lately and i dont know how to get back up there. my heart hurts and all i want to do is lay in bed and just… wallow in my pain. i know this might sound sooo childish or what, i just wanted a big sister or brother advice on how to get past this stage in life :( does it get better?

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