2. I think life handed me awful genes and I can't find a way to love myself : stressLess-life

I think life handed me awful genes and I can't find a way to love myself

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Posting from my phone, sorry if the format is wrong, also English isn't my native language.

Basically I feel like every single part of me is ugly and weird, and all my life I've hated the way I look. I was bullied in most of my school years for my looks (and the fact that I was shy), so I may be harsher with myself than I should be, but still I can't find a single thing that I love about my physical appearance.

I've listed some of the most prominent things that I hate about myself:

-My eyes are extremely deep-seated, i look constantly tired and people have asked me if I'm a drug addict -My brows are really "fat" and the hairs are thick but somewhat sparse so they're difficult to manage and fill -My forehead is absolutely massive, like it's half my head -My nose is really wide, but not the nostrils part, it's mostly the bone part, so together with the forehead it looks like it's all I have on my face and I can't wear sunglasses because they always hurt me (sometimes make me bleed) -My lips are tiny and when I smile they have lines in them that make me look old, someone once asked me if I'm in my 40s (I'm 27) -My face shape is square, and it makes me look like a man, to a point where someone saw a photo of me when I was younger and though that i was MTF -My nails come out crooked and tilted on one side when long, plus they're really thin and bendy so they break easily, but when they're short they are round and weird and my hands look like a man's -My two big toenails come out dense and are prone to fungus growth (that's due to and accident when I was 4 but there's nothing I can do about it, both the nail salon and a doctor told me they will forever grow like this) -Just like my brows, my hair on my legs, armpits, and especially my bikini come out extremely dark and thick (even though I'm blonde) and when I shave they come back withing a few hours -My actual hair on my head is something between straight and curly, and they are extremely thin and brittle, and I can't do anything with them because they'll lose their shape within an hour and they'll look like I just woke up in a swamp or something -My back is massive, and since I'm short (1.59cm, 5'3'') it makes me look even shorter but not in a feminine way -My torso is long and my legs are short so I can only wear high-rise pants and skirts or else I look weird -I always have a big "beer" belly that makes me look like I'm pregnant, I had it even when I had an eating disorder back in high school and had only little amounts of fat, and it doesn't feel like fat, but like I'm bloated, though it's not related to food because I've tried different diets over the years and it's always the same -I was born with spondylolisthesis so it makes workouts harder and HIIT workouts are basically forbidden for me, I can't even jump without fearing of hurting myself -Severe allergy to sesame, I know it could be worse but I love asian food and I can't eat a lot of their stuff and I always have to be extremely careful and worry for my life when I eat bread from the bakery since most of them don't clean their ovens

What can I do? Is there a way to overcome those things? I tried talking positively to myself, think about things that I like about me (I couldn't find a lot), but at the end of the day these are all things I can't change unless I spend A LOT of money, which I don't have. If you have any advice l I'd really really appreciate it.

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