2. I (30f) have an issue with my boyfriend (36m) and I don’t know what else to do about it. : stressLess-life

I (30f) have an issue with my boyfriend (36m) and I don’t know what else to do about it.

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Tl;dr My boyfriend oesn’t make me feel like a priority or a girlfriend and I don’t know how much longer I can put up with it

My boyfriend and I have been together since late October. We are sorta long distance (about an hour and a half) and I have commuted to him about every time while he has come to see me once. When I do come over it’s always just us watching tv and eating Uber eats or I am cooking. We have yet to spend a whole day together. We talk on the phone and text through out the day every day. When we are on the phone he is always either working, playing video games with his friends/family or playing them in general, or he is doing research on betting or calling me in between running errands.

About six weeks ago I mentioned to him that I need romance, I need to feel like a girlfriend than some girl who comes over every four or more weeks to sleepover then leave for work. I understand he has a lot on his plate because he has two jobs, projects he is working on and he has custody of his son part time. Like I totally get it. He just also does this thing where he will randomly be like “next time I am going to see you in your city” “I got you something” or “I want to plan this in two weeks” etc. and nothing happens? I don’t even care that he didn’t actually give me anything, I mean, I do wish he would plan a date but I also wish he wouldn’t lie? I confronted him about this also and he said it wasn’t fair because he has been busy which I will accept. I just have seen a very consistent pattern of it and it’s hard to ignore. I have been in a lot of relationships like this and I am willing to be patient but to an extent… quality time is very important to me and I wish he would put more effort in making me feel like some kind of priority. Right now he has been absolutely all talk and it feels hard to believe nowadays.

How do I get through this with him? It’s really bothering me and I am not trying bother him about, I just need to know this isn’t going to be a forever thing for us

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