2. we’re all just lil’ creatures 😊 : stressLess-life
we’re all just lil’ creatures 😊
https://ift.tt/PKjk72Xsorry for how long this is, and i don’t know if this will help anyone, but somehow it has COMPLETELY stopped my unhealthy comparisons and derealization so i figured i’d verbalize it in the hopes it helps someone :) for the past few years i have been in a great relationship and my life has been good overall but i’ve dealt with so much self-hatred and comparison to others; it got to the point where i could not look at myself in the mirror and hated how gangly and tall i looked when i’d walk in videos, and i was missing out on all these incredible moments because my mind was always racing about how i looked. i couldn’t even enjoy vacations because i would be hating myself so much the whole time.
anyway, i’ve also always hated being told i looked like someone, idk why, so one time i was told i looked like elizabeth olsen which is obvi a huge compliment but it sent me spiraling lol (again, idk why - maybe because i felt “not unique”???). my boyfriend was confused but supportive lol. then, a little while later, someone told me i looked like bambi’s girlfriend from the original bambi movie, which i thought was an amazing compliment, and my boyfriend was like “huh??? i thought you hated when people compared you to others” and i replied “yeah but all animals are adorable so it’s always a compliment”
and then i just started realizing we’re all little creatures, who all look completely different but all adorable in our own way, the same way that a zebra and an elephant are extremely different but both perfect in our eyes. as humans, we have such a wide variety of features, which are not “better” or “worse” but just add to the incredible, beautiful diversity of the animal kingdom that we are a part of. and in the same way that we find it adorable when a dog makes eye contact with us or a horse flicks its mane, other people find it adorable when you crinkle your nose, or lick your lips, or sip a cup of coffee. everything that you do is a wonderful thing to witness, and if we were part of some other species’ zoo, there would be onlookers watching you walk around saying how absolutely adorable and interesting you are. and they would say that about every single one of us because we are all uniquely beautiful creatures. :)
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